Saturday, August 13, 2022

COUSIN DIDI

 "Hot crumpets with jam and butter. What could be more ambrosial?" - William Boyd

The year I was ten, my Cousin Didi descended on us. She came every other summer and stayed a couple of weeks. She was a perpetual student.  This year she’d been taking cooking lessons from a college. "Lok at me, I'm coo-king" she warble. She always smelled like lavender. She  liked to crush lavender in her hands and crumble it into her shoes and over her hair. She said it made her feel  “one” with all that lived and breathed. She liked to sit under the willow tree and  count the leaves. She was  child of the air.

“ I won’t cook with anything that has eyes,”  Didi said. She didn’t mind  sausages though. “They don’t have eyes.” So we had lots of sausages. But not with eggs, cause she thought  eggs looked like they were eyes…..

One afternoon we walked down to the store to buy small canning jars and peaches. We gushed over those peaches,  juice ran down our hands.  Didi liked to walk slowly, breathing in the air and remarking on how  “groovy” the world felt.  She  hummed  songs as we shuffled along. Her dark blonde hair floated behind her like  a web.

If we found flowers  growing  over fences she’d pick them, stuffing them behind her ears, and mine. Sometimes she brought a piece of chalk and she’d draw a hopscotch on the sidewalk in front of  fussy Mr. and Mrs. Bolt’s house.  We were hopping up and down the sidewalk as they  came charging out with their old dog.

 Didi had a way with people. Calming. Soothing. She asked  how the universe was treating them. Pretty soon they all seemed happy as clams.  

We came home to buckets of blackberries on the kitchen table. My mother was washing them. We had been picking the day before. Didi came along with us. She didn’t do much picking. She sat cross legged on a towel and communed with the sun. 

Some girls her age came along and she communed with them, while we worked away.  Then she sang us songs while we picked blackberries. She observed that the day was “groovy”.

The day we came back from the store,  my mother told us  she had to go work half a day. She wanted us to finish washing the blackberries. She planned on making preserves that night. 

My mother told Didi to keep me out of trouble. Keep me busy. And off she went to work. She’d be back at five. 

Didi  said we should make the preserves. “It  will be groovy,” she chirped.  I’d never made jam. Didi said they learned how to make  “Sun jam” in her last cooking  class.

She got the white plastic wash basin from the kitchen, put it on the grass and piled in  a ton of  fruit. Then she got the oven roaster, and filled it as well.  

She slipped off her socks and shoes. Lavender fell out of her socks.   We rinsed off our feet with the hose. Didi stepped into the roasting pan. I stepped into the white kitchen basin. We giggled.

We stomped and slushed and slipped  in blackberries till our feet were purple. It was fun. It was silly.   Didi danced out of the roasting pan . We rinsed off our feet with the garden hose. We put  socks back on, over our purple stained feet.

Didi  ladled soggy blackberries into small jars.  We set the 24 jars out in the bright sun. Then we plopped ourselves under the willow tree to listen to the lids pop. “Groovy”, intoned Didi as she  became as one with the earth.

My mother came home to find the little jars sitting nicely on the table.  She was thrilled. Didi was thrilled. I think I was  thrilled. I wasn’t sure. My feet were itchy from all the purple goo.

 My mother was tickled pink. She had us deliver jars to all of the neighbours. Kept quite a few for ourselves. Opened one  jar that night to ladle over ice cream.

Even the Bolts got a couple of jars. They thought it was the best jam they had ever tasted. Wanted to know what the secret ingredient was. There seemed to be a hint of lavender……

 By that time, it was the end of the week, and Didi left to return to cooking school. “But nothing with eyes. I don’t do eyes. ” She  had a “groovy” time with us.

Making jam  had made her feel “one” with her universe….. 


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